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Boys, men are programmed to win. In order for them to win it has to be a competition. A game. A race. I haven't any patience for this behavior. I am all for a "GO GET'EM" kinda fellow, but one that plays with your mind and heart...as his way of expressing his need to win by making a game out of you, makes me sick. Just win me with your heart and mind. Show me how great you are. Not how mysterious you can be, or how confused you can get me. As a female I have not "gaming equipment". I don't have a program guide or the slightest idea how to play this game. Even if I did, I would not be about to play to win, just play enough to give them a run for their money??? Ugh, exhausting. Vomit. Why can't we call them when they are on our minds. Or text them something silly, for no good reason. What is it about us being comfortable that makes them uncomfortable. Let's try a little reality. I am a mom with 2 kids, when I play games they have a Board, and a little spinning piece in the middle to tell me how many spaces to move with little plastic figures to move all over the board. Those are the games I play. Not games involving humans. This coming from a female.